When did you first realize you were a spanko?

  • June 8, 2013 8:10 AM PDT

    I don't ever remember not being rivited by spankings. My very first spanking fanasy was when I was only three years old. I remember my mom putting me down for a nap. While I was laying in bed I started imagining a retelling of the story Jack and the Giant Beanstock. In my version, the Giant's wife put Jack across her big lap and spanked his bare bottom. That was 47 years ago and in all the years since then, my mind has never stopped inventing new stories.

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    June 9, 2013 4:16 AM PDT
    remember watching one of those expoitation jungle films where a warder hit a female prisoner on her naked ass with his batton , and being more arroused by that than any of the shower scenes , think that was probably the first instant I knew I was into spanking , also allways been an "ass" man
  • June 20, 2013 4:06 PM PDT
    It was when I was about 4, there was a place by my house that had hands in a circle for their logo and I always imagined it was a place where really bad kids got sent for severe spankings.
  • July 31, 2013 1:38 AM PDT

    Really young except I didn't realise there was a name for it until I was in my late teens. Just thought I was weird


    This post was edited by Deleted Member at July 31, 2013 1:38 AM PDT
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    July 31, 2013 6:08 PM PDT
    At puberty I found the idea of placing a girl across my lap, baring her bottom and the spanking her very intriging. I've been active in spanking for the last 5 years.
  • August 7, 2013 1:05 PM PDT
    I dont think it would be wise to disclose the age at which I first realised my interest.
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    August 12, 2013 9:32 AM PDT
    I was about 11, my school believed in corporal punishment, I was always a 'good girl' never punished, but since I was 11, I always wanted that..
  • August 12, 2013 2:33 PM PDT
    always got spanked by dad when I was young...hated that...but a boyfriend spanked me at 17 been into it every since
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    August 23, 2013 9:00 PM PDT
    I wasn't spanked as a kid. But one night when I was young, I couldn't sleep and I could hear a TV movie my parents were watching. A woman was yelping in this movie and I imagined she was being spanked. I was instantly aroused by the thought.
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    September 30, 2013 11:09 AM PDT

    Hello Friends, Like many others here, I had an interest in spanking from the earliest days of my recorded history. I seldom was spanked growing up (and when I was, it was more of the "grab-n-whack" variety and not the more ceremonious, "official" otk type spanking that many find appealing). I did not make any type of sexual connection until later on in life, but growing up, I instinctively knew it was something one should keep to one's self (and avoid getting them for real..at all costs). Still, I found myself become more and more interested in the subject and would find every opportunity to immerse myself in the topic as I'm sure many others here have as well (comics, tv, the dictionary).

     

    Along the way, I started to experiment with self-spanking. (well not so much actual spanking, but more lying over the chair in my room and imagining what it would be like to be getting a "real" spanking. As time went on, It became quite clear the obvious sexual connection (to me)there was to spanking. I went to high school during the "tight, designer jeans" era and while I'm sure most other guys were having thoughts of more mainstream sex fantasies, I would often think about what it would be like to have a bottom clad in those jeans over my knee (and soon thereafter, having a turn over a denim-clad lap...ahh the benefits of being a switch).

     

     I guess what I am taking a long time to say is...having no memorable "trigger", I firmly believe that spanking, for me anyway, is genetically encoded.

     

    respectfully, max


    This post was edited by maxrr at September 30, 2013 11:11 AM PDT
  • October 19, 2013 1:06 PM PDT
    As far back as I can remember. It was always there.
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    November 19, 2013 3:48 PM PST

    I was seven or eight years old and was playing in the alley behind the row house i lived in. A heard a girl I went to school with crying through an open window of her home, a few doors down from me, and her father telling her to go up to her room. He'd be up soon to spank her.


    In a few moments I herad her crying again from her room as she waited for him. A few more minutes and he arrived and scolded her some more then told her to pull down her pants. I heard her say "Not the belt!" I listened fascinated as she cried while the belt did it's deed on her obviously bare ass.

    I ran right home and mastrubated reliving those wonderful sounds in my mind. From that day forth I was hooked on spanking. We hardly ever got spanked at home. About the time I was 20 I found a partner that shared my 'kink' and have never looked back.

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    December 8, 2013 3:34 PM PST
    Before puberty!
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    January 6, 2014 9:30 AM PST
    My first memory of enjoying spanking came at about 5. I knew then I wanted a bare bottom OTK spanking. I never got one for real until I was 29. As I grew up I discovered I also enjoyed doing the spanking. I do still lean toward being spanked.
  • January 6, 2014 11:42 PM PST
    I was aware of my interest at 4-5. I had no idea what a spanko was at the time naturally. Oddly even then it had a sexual element. The first time I remember being aroused was while thinking about it in bed.
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    January 7, 2014 1:05 AM PST
    I guess my interest started at about ten. My cousins played spanking games and made me join in.
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    April 1, 2014 12:15 AM PDT
    For me it was when I hit puberty around 13. I always wanted to play spanking games with girls I knew.
  • April 9, 2014 3:31 PM PDT
    When I turned sixteen.
  • April 14, 2014 9:13 AM PDT

    From the age of about 5, or maybe 6.

     

    My mother told me I was going to get the cane, on my bare bottom. I received this news with mixed emotions, because although I had never been caned before, I was already fascinated with bottoms and I wondered what it would be like to be spanked like that instead of on the hand. So she took me to my bedroom, took down my trousers and underpants and made me lie across the folded counterpane at the end of my bed.

     

    Three things made my little penis begin to get excited (yes, even at that age!) - the act of presenting my bare bottom, the feel of the cool soft satin counterpane against my penis, and the thought of what was going to come. At the last minute I stood up and asked "how many are you going to give me?" "Six", replied my mother, and I resumed my presentation, bottom up, across the end of the bed.

     

    She didn't cane me hard and she didn't give me all six, but I cried loudly and I think my poor mother got more of a fright than I did!

     

    The memory of that experience has stayed with me ever since then.


    This post was edited by Spankmanbare Williamson at April 15, 2014 5:46 AM PDT
  • April 26, 2014 7:44 AM PDT
    22, after married!
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    May 3, 2014 9:41 AM PDT
    Spankmanbare Williamson said:

     

     

    "She didn't cane me hard and she didn't give me all six, but I cried loudly and I think my poor mother got more of a fright than I did!

     

    The memory of that experience has stayed with me ever since then".

     

    So,  that reminds me of my intro at similar age, lol. How long did your mum continue to punish you like this?


    This post was edited by Reggie Fane at May 3, 2014 9:42 AM PDT
  • May 20, 2014 3:11 AM PDT
    Only once, but I'm convinced that the allure of bare-bottom spanking, and being spanked, was imprinted by that event.
  • May 25, 2014 8:46 PM PDT
    I first realized a fascination with spanking at the age of 4. I'd want to know about my friend's spankings or I'd have an intense fascination with cartoon spanking scenes. It wasn't until the age of 17 that I could put a name to the interest, SPANKO, masochist, sub, age play etc.
  • June 11, 2014 9:54 AM PDT
    At a very early age for some reason. No idea why as I was not spanked over much growing up but it fascinated me the pain aspect.
  • July 1, 2014 9:24 PM PDT

    When I was 11 years old, I found that my friends and I would talk about porn and where to find it exactly. I'd look myself but, I never wanted to get caught by my parents. One day, my older brother stayed the night and while my parents were away, I found him looking at porn so I finally had my chance to find out where I can find good porn. I asked him what site was it and if I could watch any. He agreed so, I looked at some and found that it was a good enough site to look at in the future.

    One night, I checked out that site and downloaded clips to a very odd porn video. It was about a black lady who was wearing odd tie dye panties and she was being asked serious questions by what looked to be a principal. He was unhappy with how short her skirt was and spanked her for it and a feeling welled up inside different from the others porn clips I've seen. It felt so good, I got hooked on the idea of spanking and sought out it everywhere I went.

    It was then, I was very sure that I was a spanko and couldn't find anything else that would make me as excited as spanking did. Very compelling to see these passions though in all aspects of my life.