When did you first realize you were a spanko?

    • 207 posts
    September 20, 2018 4:45 AM PDT
    Oh momforgirl s you sure bring me back to when I was 9 10 I with the the boys and girls used switch each other on our bare bottoms the older ones in charge ouch ouch with some of them mostly for fun we did it
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    September 20, 2018 7:25 AM PDT
    Kammiekisses said:

    4 or 5. I was one of those kids who would look up spanking in the dictionary over and over even though I damn well knew what it meant. lol

    And there I was thinking I was the only kid of that age who looked up the words 'Spanking' and 'Smacking' in the dictionary, although I was 10 at the time. It was puberty and I got excited at the thought of being put over a womans knee, with my pants around my knees getting the smacking of my life.

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    September 20, 2018 7:32 AM PDT
    Natalie30 said:
    I was always quite sexually confident, so felt no compunction about having designs on guy's bottoms and other bits - it wasn't such a big leap to imagine spanking from that. I read stuff on the internet in teens, and various spanking fiction that I came across - especially liked the novels from Arabella Knight. She usually had a section in which the women take the dominant role, generally carrying out some extravagant punishment on a very deserving male. I loved that, and first spanked a guy when I was at uni (I asked him if I could after getting hints that we would like that). Have spanked quite a number of boyfriends since then, but also taken a submissive role too with several. Admire a guy who has it in him to spank me to tears and then take full advantage...

    I gave my first rl spanking to a girl of 6 when i was 10. We were playing in a tent in the garden, and she told me her dad had spanked her the night before, but she never cried from it. I dsaid i would like to give her a spanking so she obliged and there she was bare bottomed over my knee. But the sound of the (light) smacking reached my mothers ears and she caught us red bottomed so to speak. She was sent home, and i was spanked soundly over my mothers knee for doing it. I was hooked on spankings after that, which led to me being a switch in adult life. No being spanked is very much a need sometimes.

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    September 20, 2018 9:00 AM PDT
    Did anyone ever get spanked on purpose? I know I did a couple of times. Once at school and once at home.
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    September 20, 2018 11:36 AM PDT
    All I grew up with in the 1940s 50s we all did if your the younger generation than it is good to know I'm a Spanko 50 years now at 72 not bad eh
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    September 20, 2018 12:53 PM PDT
    My last childhood spanking was at 16 from my Aunt. Years later I realized that was my introduction to the world of adult spanking.
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    September 27, 2018 10:20 AM PDT
    KentuckyGuy said:
    Did anyone ever get spanked on purpose? I know I did a couple of times. Once at school and once at home.
    Yes I did. I like a orgasm after a spanking so there were times I would piss my mom or dad off to the point of beating my ass, usually right before they were going somewhere so I could be alone to jack off with my ass on fire. Sometimes I would add to it and a few times I had a gay male friend who was at my house when it happened so he could spank me some more.
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    September 28, 2018 8:54 AM PDT
    I'm a switch but lean toward being spanked. I was interested in spanking since about 5. Never spanked for real but WANTED to be. Even asked my mother to spank me when I was 12 She refused.
    Never knew others were into it until I was in the military. Went into a porn shop and saw spanking mags. Now I know those pics were posed but at least I knew I was not alone.
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    September 29, 2018 6:45 AM PDT

    Isn't it odd that so many of us were fascinated by spanking &c. at such young ages?  But it wasn't until I was in mylate 60's that I became actively involved.  Many thanks to the sweet lady who introduced me to her wonderful bottom and the joys of spanking.

  • KR
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    October 1, 2018 12:50 PM PDT
    One time when I was 13 I was mouthing off to my mom. I came out of my room and my dad grabbed me from behind, and wacked me real hard with his belt . It landed so perfect on my ass I actually liked it. Many times after that I would purposely disobey to get a spanking. I would stay out late on purpose and think about the whipping I was going to get when I got home!
  • KR
    • 14 posts
    October 1, 2018 12:57 PM PDT
    KentuckyGuy said:
    Did anyone ever get spanked on purpose? I know I did a couple of times. Once at school and once at home.
  • KR
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    October 1, 2018 1:01 PM PDT
    azanallover said:
    KentuckyGuy said:
    Did anyone ever get spanked on purpose? I know I did a couple of times. Once at school and once at home.
    Yes I did. I like a orgasm after a spanking so there were times I would piss my mom or dad off to the point of beating my ass, usually right before they were going somewhere so I could be alone to jack off with my ass on fire. Sometimes I would add to it and a few times I had a gay male friend who was at my house when it happened so he could spank me some more.

     

    I did. I used to purposely disobey my parents so I would get a spanking. I loved the nervous feeling thinking about getting my butt tanned

  • Tim
    • 50 posts
    October 1, 2018 2:21 PM PDT
    I thought i was the only one that got into trouble on purpose just so I could get spanked. I use to break rules at jr high such as chewing gum in class just to get a couple of swats..lol
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    December 29, 2018 9:56 PM PST
    While I didn’t get a lot of spankings growing up, I had friends that did. The most memorable was when my next door neighbour got a proper tanning with a narrow wooden stick, obviously designed for the purpose. I was there playing, her Dad came home, and after a duscussion with her Mom, called her into the house. For unexplainable reasons, I followed close behind. When we arrived in the kitchen, there was a very short discussion about what had happened at school that day and her Dad took her across his knee, bared her bottom and gave her the licking of a lifetime! It’s like I was invisable and he didn’t even acknowledge that I was there until it was over. Then he looks at me and says “ you better run along home because Wanda isn’t coming back out to play today!!
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    December 30, 2018 9:04 PM PST
    Very nice experience Spankdaad. How old were you both? And it was very common in the 70s and 80s
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    December 31, 2018 3:06 PM PST
    More common in the 50's and 60's when I grew up. Many of my friends witnessed me being spanked and vice versa.
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    December 31, 2018 7:41 PM PST
    My “spanko” realization came later. But, cowboy, the 1970s and early 1980s had similar experiences. We were playing kickball one time in neighborhood and this girl said the wrong word and her mother heard. She was dragged inside by the ear and spanked as she walked. It got worse once they were inside. Another friend was late one time and asked me to walk back with him thinking his Dad would not be so harsh if I was there. Nope. Greeted us at screen door with belt folded over and advised me to go home. Before I got to end of driveway, a belt spanking of epic proportions
  • January 10, 2019 12:38 PM PST
    It was the late 60's and 70's. Spanking was the norm at home and school where they used a slipper.
    I got the strap at home from Dad and my friends the same. Although my thrashings hurt like hell i was always interested in hearing about the other kids hidings particularly the girls. Windows would be open in summer and and there was often the sounds of someone 'getting it'.
    When I went up to secondary school at 11 boys got the cane and girls the slipper [and cane sometimes] I would be fascinated to hear that one of the girls had been sent to the senior mistress but they were not all that forthcoming about the details, at least not to us lads.
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    January 16, 2019 7:03 AM PST

    Was born beginning of '67 so for the main part grew up during 70s and early 80s.  Spanking extremely common in those days.  It was definitely whilst growing up that i realised I was a spanko.  Hated getting a spanking myself since they hurt like hell. (Though the tingle and afterglow when the real sting had subsided was quite pleasant)  But always became excited when someone else was getting it.  As I got older my first sexual stirrings occured when I saw or heard someone get a spanking.  Which in the 70s and early to mid 80s was very common.  Especially so in the 70s!!

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    January 16, 2019 7:11 AM PST
    As has been said above Summer was a particularly fruitful time for hearing someone get a spanking.
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    March 16, 2019 8:50 PM PDT

    when I was 3, I had a dream that my mom and her boyfriend (who later became my dad) were spanking me, and laughing, (not sure where that dream came from, they never did that in real) then I started taking barbie dolls and spanking them. When I was about 7 or 8, I was playing house with my aunt who is 3 or 4 year older then me. I played the dad, and I spanked her with the belt. Then I witnessed my grandfather spank her for real.... me like.... When I hit puberty my imagination went crazy with the Sears catalogs! That was long before the internet.

  • April 13, 2019 2:09 AM PDT

    When I was 18, we had a woman staying with us at home who I liked. She took me into a massive barn we have and.....that's how I got into it. tongue-out

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    April 26, 2019 8:48 PM PDT

    @sarahcupcake Well, now, you can't just stop there :-)

  • April 27, 2019 12:56 AM PDT

    laughing No well.... I didn't. I thought I'd grow out of it all but I'm 32 now and...… bla bla bla…!!

  • Ken
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    May 5, 2019 5:55 AM PDT

    guess for me it is  life long thing, now sure why. I got spanked growing up, and quite severely at times, it hurt terribly, and I hated getting them. But from a young age, probably 7 or 8 I remember playing spanking games with other kids, boys and girls, it just seemed natural and something we did as play, and to test our endurance sometimes, like seeing how hard a swat we could take. Like others have said, I remember looking up "spank" and other related words in the dictionary when I was younger too.