We have a DD lifestyle, who else has this?

We have been practicing DD for over a year, How long for you?

We do, for 6 years now.

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oh yes, for 42 years!

What is DD to each of you?

Did you always call it domestic discipline?

Martin said:
oh yes, for 42 years!

mali said:
What is DD to each of you?

To me it means that you spank the one you love beacause, they need it as much as they want it. It's easy to spank if you know that it is wanted in the realationship. Sometimes, it is expected of you and requires a different mind set to carry out everything that your role requires you to do.

Come home from work and tell me that you've been fired for yelling at your boss = You'll be spanked so you know not to do it again. After the spanking we both know that it's okay because, we love eachother and that makes the whole thing okay.

It would be like living the dream life. I get an emotional release from being spanked and it helps me sleep at night if I have a bunch of pent up BS that needs to be dealt with. My girlfriend is glad to do it as long as I don't reciprocate - she's not fond of being spanked herself but she spanks me when she knows I need it.

This post was edited by Cass Weber at July 23, 2015 9:03 AM PDT

Would love to be in a DD relationship with a woman

We do

Wish I did

Wish I did Annie what do you mean?

mali said:

Did you always call it domestic discipline?

Martin said:
oh yes, for 42 years!

No, my wife usually calls it by her preferred method, as in "You need a good caning".

Cass Weber said:

It would be like living the dream life. I get an emotional release from being spanked and it helps me sleep at night if I have a bunch of pent up BS that needs to be dealt with. My girlfriend is glad to do it as long as I don't reciprocate - she's not fond of being spanked herself but she spanks me when she knows I need it.

Exactly my experience too, Cass, about the emotional relief that comes from being spanked. My wife has the same attitude as your girlfriend, and knows very well how much it helps to administer the necessary whenever I deserve it.

Living in a Loving and caring DD relationship would be my ultimate dream absolutely. But it's not easy to find a partner that wants to take the HOH role! They're a rare species in this country :-)

yes, for 2 years

This is my second 24/7, female-led DD relationship. First one lasted just over 6 years, my current relationship is now over 10 years old. We have always called DD and is has worked very well improving my behavior.

Glad to hear it. We are both on the same end of the paddle. If you would like to compare notes or share experiences, message me or here is fine.

Slowly working on the girlfriend to have this in our relationship

Good news, Larry.  That can work, I know of some very well running DD relationships that are not with married folks.  Some not even living together so it is not a 24/7 situation.  I hope your gf agrees to give the DD concept a try.

many years ago when first married I came with this without knowing there was DD.  My wife had a terrible childhood and needed to be properly parented.  So I became Daddy.  Encouraging when needed and paddling when needed.  Eventually evolved out of it.  After we got rid of the crap mommy put in her head.

We have a domestic discipline lifestyle. We met on spank finder and have been DD from first date, that was 9 yrs ago.

Always good to meet and chat with folks in DD households, either male or female led.  My current FLR is just over 11 years old.